What Men want in a Relationship? Is it the same
thing for the women they want to have in their lives?.
Contrary to what many women think, most guys
aren't looking for a supermodel or beauty queens.
They're just looking for their perfect match, a woman
who's down-to-earth, sweet and sensitive to his
needs.
If you want to win the right man's heart, you need to
know what it is that makes a man go from just
feeling casual about dating you to wanting and
needing you on a deeper level. I'm going to take you
inside a man's mind, so you understand what it takes
to trigger this kind of connection. And I'm talking
about a real man – one who is mature and grounded
on a physical, mental, emotional, and spiritual level.
So here are some unique qualities a man want in the
woman he is romantically involved with:
1. Attraction: Men aren't as scared of commitment
and relationships as they are scared of being in a
relationship with a woman where there is no
passion and attraction. A common way women
accidentally kill the attraction in men might be
feeling is by either trying too hard to get him to
like you, or by acting like the relationship is too
serious too soon. Relax and let things happen
naturally. Make sure you do and say things that
interject fun and humor into your relationship from
the very start. There's nothing more appealing to a
man than a great woman who knows how to relax
and have fun. You can do this through playful
teasing, flirting, humor, and being unpredictable
(in a good way).
2. Approval and Praises: Men love to be
appreciated and complimented all the time. They
love that more than women, although they don’t
show it. He wants you to notice and compliment
him on his sense of clothing, his looks, his choose
of hobbies and even more in the bedroom. They
want their women to make them feel that they are
better than any other guy. Showering compliment
on your guy will defiantly boost his egos.
3. Good Attitude: A man needs a woman with good
attitude and respect for his family and friends, your
guy needs to know that you will be able to conduct
yourself well when you are around his family or
friends. A woman’s attitude will just determine
how the guy will see you and what kind of
relationship the guy will probably want have with
her.
4. Emotional Matured: If a man feels attracted to a
woman, eventually there's going to be a situation
that comes up where you and a man will see
something differently and misunderstand each
other. How will you respond to this and share your
feelings? A woman who has the maturity to not
blame or criticize a man for what she's feeling, but
to share her feelings in an honest and authentic
way that helps a man better understand her will be
attractive to a man. How a woman handles her
emotions is one of the most important things men
look for when deciding whether or not to get
serious with a woman. If she lets her emotions get
out of control, this is a big red flag to him. On the
other hand, if she can present her feelings to him
in a calm, non-dramatic manner, she will win his
respect and make him feel like she's the kind of
woman who will be a real partner to him. He'll see
that she can handle things with a cool head, rather
than becoming a damsel in distress he has to
rescue.
5. Support: We all once in a while want someone to
lean on and talk to, someone that understands US
in a deeper level. Even the strongest of men want a
soft place to fall. He wants to know that you'll
support him and stand by him in his life choices,
whether it's changing careers or moving to a new
city. Show your support in small gestures with a
quick "I love you" text when he heads off for his
morning commute and listen to him after a hard
day's work. Be supportive — but not suffocate him.
6. Independence: Lots of women mistakenly believe
that men are looking for a "weaker" woman who
will make them feel like they are smarter and more
powerful. Nothing could be farther from the truth.
Real men want a woman who inspires them
because she has great things going on her own life.
They want a woman who has her own purpose
other than being in a relationship. A great guy isn’t
intimidated by independence and success. What
matters to a man is that a woman still has space in
her life for a great relationship and is grounded and
present when she’s with him. The best way to
communicate this to a man is to stay busy in your
own life and not suddenly make him your world.
Don't drop your own interests, responsibilities, and
friends just to be with him. And then, when you are
with him, really BE with him – have fun and give
your attention to him and what you're doing
together.
7. Respect: Men want to feel respected by their
partner. They want to know that either in private or
public you trust, believe and admire them. If a
man’s partner doesn’t respect his path or mission
in life, then he will find it very difficult to feel
anything other than an anxious need to distance
him from her.
8. Space: Suffocating a man is the fastest way of
ending a relationship. He needs breathing room in
a relationship. He wants time for his hobbies and to
just hangout with his friends. Men love it when
they are being left alone to their thoughts or solve
problems. So leave him to his own devices. A man
will be that much happier for you to receive him
when he returns, knowing that you trust both him
and the strength of your bond enough to let him
have his space.
9. Sex: Men and women both connect through sex
and communication, but generally, women connect
better through communication and men connect
better through sex. Does this mean that men need
to have sex with their intimate partners every day
in order to feel connected? Not necessarily. Often, a
man will initiate sex just to make sure that you are
still sexually available to him. So, if he reaches
across the bed for you, even showing the
willingness to embrace him, to kiss him deeply,
and to engage him could be enough to make him
feel loved.
10. Emotional Intimacy: From a very young
age, men are taught to avoid appearing weak at
all costs. Perceived “weakness” includes things
like complaining, divulging fears or concerns,
and expressing self-doubt or worry. A man’s
partner is his safe space to fall. He can expose
the cracks in his amour and allow his partner to
help him heal .Just as women need to slowly
open up sexually within a relationship; men
open up over time emotionally. He needs to
make sure that when he first cries in front of
you, you won’t be repelled or handle it poorly. If
you push him away or are unable to be
nurturing when he needs it the most, he will no
longer trust you with his emotions. He will
remove himself somewhat from the relationship
.In this instance, both partners lose- he goes on
silently suffering and believing that he is flawed
in his imperfection, and she is held at arm’s
length emotionally.
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