5 Common Reasons Why Most Ladies Are Not Married

Hello everyone am sure you are doing great and
having a great time in your relationships. Ok. On
today’s write-up, I will be discussing on some reasons
why so many ladies remain single. So many will
term it a spiritual issue, I think all blames should not
go spirituality, but on the things I will be listing
below here. So fasten your seat belt and enjoy the
trip we unlock some of these factors.

1: STANDARD/CHOICE- some ladies have set so great
standard on whom they want to marry, that it has
now become a problem to them. The standards are
so high that most bachelors are not eligible again,
imagine when some ladies want a man with a
mansion, good job and already made, and forgetting
that most men with this criteria’s are married
already, so to get a suitable young man that meets
this standard becomes rare and a serious problem.
2: FAMILY /CULTURE- This factor plays out most in
African where families are forbidden from marring
some tribe due to age long history. A lady sees a man
she loves and they both starts a plan, but along the
line on getting home to meet with their future in-
laws, family differences and culture now begins to
pose a great hindrance to them e.g. The Ibo speaking
part especially tells you of Osu (Outcast). How on
earth can you call a normal human like you an
outcast and stops your son or daughter from
marrying there.
3: Social Media: WHAT! Most of you reading this will
scream at me, but yes social media has got its own
wahala as we call problem locally in this part of the
world. Yes it got so many advantages, yet its
problems cannot be overlooked. Most ladies have
exposed themselves to social media to the extent
that guys now see’s them as sex toys. How can I as a
guy see your nakedness (Nudity) in social media and
I know to well that all your contact list have seen so
too, still want to go ahead to have you as a wife
material?. Ladies should learn to become modest on
social media, as you don’t know who may be seeing
you. It could be your future husband, father or
mother in-law, sister-in-laws…just name it.
4: Economy: this cannot be over looked also; the
present economy is not helping matters, as the cost
of settling down is not easy in this part of the
country. No lady these days is ready to settle for
suffering or let’s build it together mentality again. So
the harsh economy is really making things difficult
and thus increasing the number of the single ladies.
So when you are busy casting and binding demons,
you should also be busy praying God to start blessing
the guys too. Imagine King Solomon was so blessed
that him alone married 700 wives and had 300
concubines….lolz.
5: WORK: Your work can also pose a threat to you
settling down. Some ladies are too busy that their
social life begins to die. You don’t go out. You don’t
hang out, it’s just work, work and work you do. I am
not saying you should not be productive or pursue
your career, but when doing this, try to blend your
social life to. Build your career and equally build your
social life. Go for weddings, dinner/gala nights,
attend birthday parties, church events and who
knows your Mr. right may just be out there waiting
for you. Well time will fail me to go ahead, seat back
and look at these factors well and see those that
applies to you.
Guys wait for me next week it will be your turn.