Having sex on your period is absolutely safe. The myth that it’s
dangerous originates largely from religious texts. Many people wrongly
believed that women were “dirty” or “unclean” while menstruating, and
for this reason, contact with menstruating women was limited or
forbidden entirely.
In fact, some religions still adhere to these practices; however,
medically and secularly speaking, there is no reason not to have sex on
your period. In fact, sex while you are menstruating can help ease the
symptoms of premenstrual syndrome, or PMS. Many women say that orgasms
can ease their cramps and the orgasmic contractions of the uterus offer a
soothing internal massage.
Also, orgasms release endorphins, natural painkillers and mood
enhancers, which can help soothe the cramps, headaches, mild depression,
and irritability sometimes associated with periods. Many women enjoy
sex more when they are menstruating because of increased feelings of
fullness in the pelvic and genital areas, which offer a head start on
arousal. There is one caveat, though: Safe sex is even more crucial
during your period.
Your risks of sexually transmitted diseases and infections are higher
than normal during this time because the cervix opens to allow blood to
pass through. Unfortunately, this creates the perfect pathway for
bacteria to travel deep inside the pelvic cavity. You are also more
likely to pass on blood-borne diseases like HIV and hepatitis to a
partner during your period and more likely to develop yeast or bacterial
infections because the vagina’s pH during menstruation is less acidic.
Finally, there is still a chance that you could get pregnant during
your period (unless you’re on the pill), so don’t assume it’s safe to
forgo contraception. No muss, no fuss. If you are worried about staining
your sheets, you can lay a towel down underneath you. You can also take
things to the bathroom and have sex in the shower or the bathtub. Not
only will it be a sensuous and exciting change from the norm, but it
will also help to wash any blood away. Try other activities. If you
aren’t in the mood for intercourse, don’t give in to pressure. However,
you can still reap the feel-good benefits of orgasm through
masturbation.
You can even enjoy oral sex during your period; it’s perfectly safe
and healthy — although, as I said above, it’s very important to practice
safer sex techniques (like using a dental dam). Maintain your sex
appeal. Sometimes when that time of the month rolls around, all you want
to do is throw on your old sweats, lie on the couch, and gorge on
feel-good snacks like ice cream and brownies. Unfortunately, foods such
as these will only serve to make bloating and cramps worse, and lead to
lethargy that will only add to your bad mood.
Instead, commit to maintaining your sex appeal during your period.
Some women claim that they feel sexy and powerful during their periods,
so tap into that side of your and go out for a night of dancing. Getting
active will help to keep your mind off your cramps, and your partner
won’t be able to resist your sensual moves. Remember, your period
doesn’t have to slow down your sex life!

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